- Everything he does annoys you
Suddenly, every little thing he does annoys you, no matter how innocent it really is. You can either try to focus on the things that you loved about him in the first place, or you can break up.
- You no longer like his personality
At first he seemed charming. Then you realized that he’s not charming, he’s actually just conceited. Now you’re tired of constantly hearing him tell you how great he is. It’s time to break up.
- You have different priorities
You plan on getting your Master’s degree, and he’s happy with his GED. Can this work? Perhaps, but you clearly have very different priorities and life goals, which is bound to cause trouble in your relationship; it might be better to break up.
- You no longer find him attractive
If you are no longer attracted to your guy, it might be time to break up. Attraction is an important part of romantic relationships, and if it isn’t there, the relationship is bound to suffer.
- He wants a commitment…
If he wants a commitment and you’re not sure that you are ready to commit, that’s a sign that this relationship is not one that you really want to be in. Breaking up can help you sort out your feelings.
- He constantly belittles you
If you’re with someone who constantly puts you down and makes you feel worthless, then it’s time to break up. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are.
- You have cheated on him
If you have started to form other romantic relationships, it’s time to break up. No one deserves to be cheated on
- You are jealous of other relationships
Do all of your friends seem to have better boyfriends than yours? Are you constantly comparing your guy to theirs and coming up disappointed? This is a sign that you are not happy with the person you are with.
- You realize that you have nothing in common
He wants to get married and have a bunch of kids; you want to focus on your career and have never really wanted kids. Situations like this often result in disappointment on both sides; consider breaking up before you both get hurt.
- All you do is argue
Lately every conversation turns into an argument. If this sounds like your relationship, then it might be time to break up. You both deserve to be with someone who makes you happy.
- You caught him cheating on you
Being cheated on is a complete lack of respect. If you’ve caught your bf with another woman, it’s time to move on. You deserve someone who is loyal to you.
- You no longer have fun together
You used to have fun together no matter what you were doing, but now spending time together seems more like a chore than like fun. It’s time to either find a way to have enjoy each others’ company again, or break up.
- You are constantly checking out other guys
When you are in a happy relationship, you have no reason to check out other guys. When your relationship is failing, you start looking for something better.
- You don’t miss him when he’s not around
If you don’t miss your boyfriend when you’re not together, and you find yourself constantly looking for reasons not to spend time together, then it’s time to break up.
- He is physically abusive
When there is physical abuse, breaking up is always the right thing to do. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and cares about your well being, not someone who hurts you.